Order the Award-Winning ‘Happily Ever NOW’ Book
Order the Award-Winning ‘Happily Ever NOW’ Book
Order the Award-Winning ‘Happily Ever NOW’ Book
Order the Award-Winning ‘Happily Ever NOW’ Book
Cloud

KQ: Why Effective Leadership = A High “Kindibility” Quotient

Why are we so often hesitant to implement approaches to leadership that originate from the heart?

Tape Measure Heart

Quick, what five adjectives come to mind when you hear the term “effective leadership?” Now, pause for a moment and attempt to draw a relationship between each of the words you chose. For the sake of the remainder of our time together today, kind reader, let’s say that every item on your list has a positive connotation.

Yes, you read correct, a “positive” connotation. The reason for the association is because we naturally assume “effective leadership” leads to a beneficial effect. If this is true, then why are we so often hesitant to implement approaches to leadership that originate from the heart?

Can it not be said that the underlying source of any new direction is also reflected in the tone of the outcome? In other words, in order to have a “positive” impact as a leader, don’t we need our intentions and mindset to source from a place of kindness?

No one is excluded from the capacity to cultivate leadership from the seeds sown by the possibilities of kindness. That is to say, we are all able to be kind and to maximize our “kindibility” in every aspect of our life. “Kindibility” is the product of integrating the possibilities of kindness with emotional intelligence, mindfulness and positive psychology.

Leadership from a mindset of high “kindibility” aims to create the space to solve problems and fulfill needs by ensuring the best possible outcome unfolds that is bigger than the individual leader’s ego. It is surrendering a personal agenda in favor of a collective creation of creative legacy.

Drawing upon the proven measure of emotional intelligence, Emotional Quotient (EQ,), “kindibility” seeks to extend its reach beyond the workplace and into personal relationships. A high “kindibility quotient” (KQ) equates with a great propensity to base decisions and perceptions upon creating conditions to manifest the possibilities of kindness, emotional intelligence, mindfulness and positive psychology in action.

Whether you are the “leader” of a multi-billion-dollar corporation or the “head” of your children’s carpool, the possibility to practice “kindibility” always exists.

Being kind does not mean being a pushover or a doormat. It merely means checking your own ego at the door and being willing to let go of any investment you have in a specific outcome unfolding.

For instance, management at the workplace need not fear appearing “soft” by tapping into the infinite well of “kindibility.”

True strength is not being forceful in order to make others do your bidding; real power emanates from creating the conditions for others, including yourself, to choose the best response to each situation.

By no means am I saying that you cannot have a preference for an outcome, just do not be invested in only a specific result occurring. If we as leaders pre-judge the end to any event, we might miss the “holy-grail” catalyst for change that our preconceptions blinded us from discovering.

We are on the verge of a new consciousness regarding the concept of leadership. Gone are the days of “command and control.” Today is the dawn of the first steps in the pivot towards leading from “kindibility.”

Could you imagine a world, a workplace or a relationship where the heart and mind coexisted peacefully as “decision makers?” This “utopia” is the reality of high KQ leadership.

What can you do each day to increase your KQ as a leader?

Let’s use today as the catalyst to begin the lifelong journey of maximizing our KQ and leave a legacy of leadership by “kindibility.” I’d love to hear from you.

________________________________________

A similar version to this post was originally published via LinkedIn

Share this post

Hi! I'm Nanci Reed.

Hi! I'm Nanci Reed.

As a Mindset + Pilates Mentor, I help heart-centered women renew and reset their Mind AND Body via Pilates + Mindfulness. I offer private and group sessions via Zoom and other online platforms. I'm also a blogger and frequent contributor to aligned publications.

Hi! I'm Nanci Reed.

Hi! I'm Nanci Reed.

As a Mindset + Pilates Mentor, I help heart-centered women renew and reset their Mind AND Body via Pilates + Mindfulness. I offer private and group sessions via Zoom and other online platforms. I'm also a blogger and frequent contributor to aligned publications.

Align with Love Self-Healing Gift Set

Invite more gentleness and less judgment into your daily life. In the Align with Love Self-Healing Gift Set you’ll receive: The 15-minute ‘Intentionally Inviting Gentleness’ guided meditation and 7 Self-Healing Journal Prompts (PDF). This set will gently stir your wonder and curiosity and align your mind, body, and spirit with love—not limitations.

Yes, I’m ready to claim my gift!